Some say it's the size of your shaft that makes her drool for one more hump session, some reckon it's the foreplay and some even say nothing beats the missionary. Well, there is no doubt it's a Spartan task to appease women in bed. Trust me, if they don't like it with you, don't even bother asking again, you just might get to know your horse's power, and you might not be a happy man ever after! But there is always that one guy she wants to have sex with again and again, and this is how you become the chosen one or at least get within the sniffing distance of being the Jack.
Chalk A Talk
I know you can't wait, but here is where we go belligerently wrong. Don't just cut to the chase and rush; girls love the chase. Talk for a while, make her comfortable, tell her she is a good look. Get into what she's been doing and divulge some of your own earful. Talk dirty but don't trash talk. The more you talk the better she palpates around you. Studies have shown women can picture what the guy would be like in bed by the way he puts up with the dialogues, so she is actually undressing you while you talk to her.
Don't Show Off
Fine, you're a player! But trust me; she would never want to know how wild your last one night stand was. If you mention how good it was, she might sense competition and comparison and then the outcome would not be what you sleaze about. So keep your secrets under locks.
Catch Her Off Guard
They don't say it that often but they like it. Clutch her when she least expects it, do it in the kitchen, off the bed take it on the floor, on the stairs or in a restaurant's wash room. Get drunk (not sloshed). Being a bit tipsy makes you sexually proactive and then takes it under the sheets. Least favourites: the dumpster and that creepy nook under the stairs.
Slow Down, Make Her Wait
Kiss her, nip her, touch her or pull her hair. Get into an extended fore play mode, undress her constantly but slowly. Try and take it all over the place; against the wall, on a stool or on the window pane. Turn her around and kiss her on her back. Take your time; you aren't cooking two-minute noodles. Planting kisses reassures a girl how much you are willing to invest in her pleasure. It's the time to put to use what you saw in that soft porn flick.
Go Down On Her
Yes eat it! It has just the same protocol as of a blow job, so guys, just follow. If you really want her to crave you bad, then go to the downtown and give her a whack tongue tornado. Not many men prove stallion enough at this task, but those who are sport win the game.
Missionary Is A Position, Not Your Mission
Okay, you are not a porn star, agreed. But sticking to the missionary positing seems like a mission when to keep on with it. Switch it! It's not that you need to be a pro, a handful (maybe 3-4) of different positions can make her world go around. Show off because it pays off!
Don't get too serious. Talk a bit and laugh a bit. If you make a mistake and she notices it just laugh it off together. Sex has funny positions and you end up making weird noises. The best way to deal with them is to laugh and keep going on!
Be a man! Yes that's true. But why should boys have all the fun? Let her take control in a few positions; let her be your cow girl or the grinder. Its gives them a feeling of superiority and boy! We all know how much they love proclaiming superiority.
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