Relationships are like cold drinks. The older they get, the more the fizz escapes out of the bottle, and they end up falling flat! New relationships, on the other hand, have all the fizz that make it exciting and full of energy. Here are top 5 rules that will keep the fizz lasting in your new love!
Rule #1: Don't Be Needy
When you grow fond of one person, you want to be around them all the time. But don’t be too clingy around her. A woman likes attention, but too much attention from a man can make her want to run away at the first sign. While if you show your woman that you are emotionally independent, she will see that as strength and confidence — two very desirable traits in a man.
Rule #2: Don’t Say It, Do It
Words are empty reassurances, and they're meaningless if not accompanied by suitable action. Instead of yapping about how much she means to you, show it through affection, actions and respect. Make her feel that you mean it without really saying it. Actions are that powerful.
Rule #3: Don't Spill Your Secrets Just Yet
You might want to confess some of your secrets to her. While she may appreciate your trust in her, it can also seem to her that you're rushing intimacy — a big turnoff! Be patient, the time to reveal those skeletons will come. But be attentive to what she has to say. If you show her that you're listening, she’ll start trusting you and the both of you will get closer in no time.
Rule #4: Don't Pressurise Her
Pushing your new lady to do things you want her to do is one of the best ways to annoy her. So instead of expecting her to blindly follow your instructions, be happy letting her do things her way. And always think about what you can offer rather than what you can get. She'll notice the effort you put into making her happy, and she'll want to make you happy in her own way.
Rule #5: Don't Always Be So Easily Available
Harbor mystery to the best of your ability. Long-lasting seduction involves a touch of the unknown and the art of keeping her guessing. Don't be around all the time. Let her wonder about you; let yourself occupy her thoughts by being away from her. The thrill of uncertainty is much more interesting than the dullness of security. This point can be adequately summed up in one true equation: Hope+ Doubt = Passion.
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